Friday, November 6, 2009

How to Improve Your Chances of Reuniting After a Breakup

getting back together,reuniting after a breakup,reunite after breakup/image.jpg So how do you improve the chances of reuniting after a breakup? After all, you deserve a second chance, right? Communication is the key, lay all the cards on the table. Resolve the conflict A.S.A.P, because all too often, couples split for silly reasons. With communication skills you can overcome the problems and regain a blissful relationship.

The truth of the matter is this. Your relationship has fallen apart. This means that your partner has voluntarily chose to end their association with you. What you must do is convince your partner to... not only  reverse their decision but to also voluntarily take it all the way back to the type of relationship you had before the trouble started.

For a lot of people, that takes a big shift in their way of thinking. This is why pushiness is not going to work. Slowly turn your ex partner's opinion by changing the things about yourself that made them lose interest with you in the first. This is how it works but you have to take the right approach.

Before You and Your Ex Get Back Together

Many couples do successfully reunite and end up with very strong relationship after a breakup. However, some couples end up reuniting for the wrong reasons. If you don't deal with and resolve the issues that led to the breakup of the relationship in the first place, then who's to say those issues won't surface again. If you want your rejuvenated relationship to be a success, take a quick look at "5 Ingredients for a Lasting Marital Relationship" and be sure to come back here, because we're not finished yet.

What's the Goal You're Trying to Achieve

Your goal here is to make your ex look at you with interest once again, right? Until your ex looks at you with interest again, you are not going to reunite with him/her. They need to be interested, just as they were the first time they fell in love with you. Does this make sense?

Make Up Your Mind and Go For It!

At this point in time, you have probably made your decision whether or not to reunite with this person. Forget about what they want just for a moment and concentrate on what you would like. That’s just for starters. Once you are certain about getting back together, you will be much more convincing as you persuade the other person to give you a 2nd chance.

If you have decided that you do not want to reunite with your ex partner you should have no problem getting over the breakup. But I have a suspicion that you are not willing to let that relationship go just yet, are you?

Listen, you should set up a meeting with your ex (after things have settled down) to discuss the future and forget the past. Apologize for anything that went wrong, whether it was your fault or not. You must agree to put the transgressions in the past, because there is no future in the past. Indeed, you do need to resolve the issues but don't dwell on them.

Think Positive

Here's the story... You must focus on the positives. What sort of positive properties do you have going for you? Why should the two of you be together? Talk about the great times you have had, the history you share and what's more, the sexual attraction you have for each other. Hopefully you will be celebrating a reunification very soon!

It may take a couple of meetings and some time to get back on track but it will be worth it. If you had a great relationship, isn't it worth fighting for. Finding someone to love and one whom also loves you in return doesn't happen every day. Sure, you have a shared history, family, children and you will soon realize, if you haven’t already done so, that these are good reasons as to why the two of you belong together.

What Was the Main Reason For Breaking Up and Can This Issue Be Resolved

Perhaps one of you had an affair, was that the reason for your breakup? This doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship must come to an end. Affairs do happen for one reason or another. Possibly you were not paying enough attention to your partner. Perhaps they felt as though they had been taken for granted.

But wait, there's more. What ever the reason may have been, try and resolve the problem. You can then start moving forward with a much stronger relationship. Approach the situation with an open mind.

5 Tips to Fixing a Broken Relationship

To have someone you love in your life is far too important to let it go. Keep this in mind… “The nose of a bulldog is slanted backward so he can continue to breath without letting go” (Winston Churchill). So concentrate on reuniting after breaking up with the love of your life and get that relationship back on track.

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12 comments:

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